“It’s important to remember we all have magic in us.” JK Rowling.
We all LOVE magic? Being able to believe in the impossible and not truly knowing how a magic trick was done. It’s entrancing and we LOVE that moment to WOW how did they just do that. In my mind it’s gives us all hope that there is more to this world than what we know and what can be explained.
We all have MAGIC within us we truly do. Whether we can see it right now or not. Not the doves flying, rabbits out of hats and being cut in half magic.
BUT how we make people feel, the combination of our skills, abilities and what we can effortlessly that makes others feel happy or loved or just a little better.
My mum’s magic is being a MUM and sharing her love in a way that makes others feel loved and nurtured. She’s amazing at it and can’t help but do it. It flows from here and those around her feel the LOVE. I’ve been lucky enough to have it all my life and now I can give more of that back to her and see what sort of mum I want to be. Truly proud to call this amazing lady my mum. J
My magic I only discovered in the last few years is threefold:
- Meeting people where they are, sitting in the dark with them if needed.
- Speaking and storytelling in a simple but compelling way to inspire others.
- Creating exciting plans and strategy of creating what you want not need.
^^^ I never used to see it, I used to downplay it and in corporate world I was told that fi I could just be a little less of me and a little quieter I’d do so much better. And now I get rewarded, with finances and fulfillment
Why should you care?
Your life will be bigger for living in your magic and you will be more of you than ever. I believe that life is truly about being you and the experiences and what we live through is all part of that shaping process.
Finding your magic I believe gives you:
More of being YOU and less comparsion.
A happier life doing things you love and less chasing the next thing.
A BIGGER impact on the world and those round you.
More self understanding and self love.
So with all the above the magic in you is there just waiting to be discovered. Let’s go.
5 Steps to Being in Your Magic
So here we go 5 steps I’ve taken to finding my own magic and also for my clients.
- Write Down Awesome List
At the top of a blanket sheet of paper, write who I already am. Then write down all the wins you have in life, things you’ve achieved or got through.
- Who Were You
Pick your top three and then consider WHO were you when you were doing this. What were you saying, thinking, feeling and doing.
Add to that a dash of emotion so ho were you feeling when you were winning and at your best.
Where are your biggest rewards? What gives you the most joy? And what makes your heart feel happy?
- Do more of that
Yes really it is that simple, use the say, think, feel and do model and then do more of that.
Sounds simple, but simple isn’t always easy.